Being Patient With Him

Patience in the dictionary is described as the act or power of calmly or contentedly waiting for something due or hoped for. It’s a passive expression of love. Patience is not necessarily what you do but how you react to people and situations. They say that 10% of life is what happens to us and the other 90% is how we respond to it so it makes it easy to see why having a patient attitude would be beneficial in all walks of life however when dealing with the opposite sex having patience can be the glue that holds your entire relationship together. It might not be on their check list but men appreciate a patient woman more than you or I will ever really understand because they themselves don’t realize how much patience it actually takes to deal with them. This next sentence may sound like something from a June Cleaver script but if you’re looking to get and keep a man then you must take what I’m saying seriously; To calmly endure an inconvenience and not react impulsively shows a man you not only care deeply for him but that you are level headed and equipped to handle major life decisions in the future, if it ever came to that. When you adopt a patient attitude you are no longer in a hurry and are able to wait for as long as needed for the best possible outcomes or responses. Your temper is under control and you’re not easily disturbed by annoyances. It gives you the chance to stay hopeful despite any delays in progress and you begin to accept that some things just cannot be changed, which is just fine. Having patience shows that you’re confident in what ever life has to throw at you. When I'm having a hard time dealing with male counterparts I try to use these tips to keep me centered so I'm not making any rash decisions in hast:

  

·        Keep faithful that things will work out for the best

·        Remember patience is a virtue

·        Never give up

·        Find effective ways to deal with issues rather than getting angry

·        Slow down

You should never compromise your morals or values for the sake of proving your patience and you should never put yourself in an uncomfortable situation for that reason either but there are times you can exercise your patient skills and show off your cool, calm qualities like when you want to talk and he doesn’t or when a guy says he’d call but didn’t. It’s appealing to men to see a woman face an obstacle with grace and poise and for the most part having patience has a major impact on alleviating stress.